Choice 


Sitting in an unknown place, I heard a gal asking someone what must be the most powerful three words?! I started thinking about it too and I heard the guy say it’s ‘I love you’! And I wondered if it was true… they were still debating but my mind started weaving a different scenario all together.

I was wondering if ‘I Love You’ are the most powerful three words… my mind wasn’t agreeing, then I thought it might be ‘I trust you’.

I Trust You more than anybody else! People say this and still hurt the ones they trust the most. So those are definitely not the most powerful three words.

I Hate you. Can that be powerful? Yes hatred being the most powerful emotion those words can be powerful. But even after hating someone gravely, you forgive them.

I Forgive You. Oh forgiveness can be really powerful. But even after forgiving someone for the things they have done to you, you cannot forget it. Those things keep haunting you. You let those things define what you are!

I Need You. Need is everything, a person in need always stretch their limits and achieve unimaginable things. But even after needing that person the most, do you go to them? No. So these words might be powerful but not most powerful.

I Believe You. Believing works wonders. True. But even after believing in you why people don’t have faith in you? Still they choose to doubt you.

So even after saying a few powerful words like love, trust, faith, forgiveness, belief… people might not choose to do what they have agreed upon in past. Even after saying I love you, people leave you. After saying I trust you, they doesn’t choose to trust you in that critical moment. Even after forgiving they might not choose to forget it.


So CHOOSING matters.

So love is not enough, neither trust is! They’ll have to Choose to love you or trust you or forgive you.

They will have to Choose to trust you in that critical moment.

On the worst possible day when you are stuck with flowing nose, fever and sneezing profusely, and your loved one have to be somewhere else, they’ll have to Choose you over everything and everybody else.

They’ll have to choose to love you in your most vulnerable moment.

They’ll have to Choose to be by your side when you’re not worthy of love at all, when you’re screaming and pushing them out, they’ll have you to Choose to be there for you.

Despite your flaws, shortcomings, your sharp edges that hurts the most, the person will have to Choose you.

Not just today but even in future, the person will have to Choose to have faith in you, to trust you, to forgive you and most of all, that person has to choose to love you for the whole life!

Choice.

Choice is everything. Love, faith, belief, forgiveness… nothing matters.

Choosing to do all these things, it matters.

So Choice is a strongest word!

And when someone Choose you over all this, than it’s most powerful bonding!

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I Know! 

I know what it’s like to feel tired. The way your bones crack and the way it aches… I know.

I know it’s tiresome to even exist sometimes, the world we live in is an exhausting place to be. It’s wearing. It’s thankless. It’s mostly tiring and rarely rewarding. I know this world, it takes more from you than it gives. And you, you are tired of loving too much, caring too much, always giving too much to the world that rarely gives anything back. You are tired of investing into pool of uncertainties. You are tired of grey, the same grey which reminds you of those heart cringing moments. 

I know you were not always this worn out. I know you used to be that person buzzing with gobs of energy. I know you used to be a pool of optimism and how you used to outweigh your cynicism and you had an immense amount in you to give.

I know your hopes has been chipped away and worn down piece by piece, a broken heart here and an unkept promise there! I know the world was never fair with you and you lost more than you won. I know you feel uninspired and demotivated to get up and try again. I know.

Beacause the truth is we are all tired, tired of the battles we fight everyday. Exhausted from the war we always have inside ourselves. The storm we carry every moment, it’s going to exhaust us.

 But you being tired will not help. When you are tired, go slowly, go at your pace, go quietly, go timidly. But do not stop. Because you are tired for all the right reasons. Don’t forget that you are tired because you’re supposed to be! You are tired because you tried. So all that pain is going to pass, just hang in there…

Game Of Pleasing

 

I came across this picture today and I instantly felt very horrible. This is what we’re conveying to the young ones!

How much important it is to look good? Why do we have this ‘perfect’ figure definition to feel confident? Is it bad to have few more ounces on your body? How does the weight of the body can define a person? I really want an answer to these questions.

This isn’t the first time I’m feeling so disgusted! We are living in a world where stuff that pleases your eyes is good, be it a pair of shoes or some clothes or a person! Now adding a person into this above category of eye pleasing stuff is something that makes me feel disgusting. Like really? Having a pair of shoes that isn’t comfortable but still looks good might be fine (though I prefer comforting ones) or maybe a dress that looks lovely but isn’t making you feel comfortable might be okay too, but choosing people on the basis of their looks is just so insensitive and moronic!

We are so much focused on pleasing people that we actually forget about our own comfort! I would want to be in a society where people will be like ‘hey so what if you have a few more ounces on your body, just let it be’,  ‘you’ve got wonderful tanned skin’, ‘hey don’t worry, you look just awesome’. Is it really burdensome to accept the way people are! I wonder…

Colour Palette Of Emotions 

Life is always colourful, emotions take on different colours. Colours say a lot about about you! People bleed emotions and colours help them. When you are happy, you will put on a bright yellow, or an orange or maybe green. When gloomy, you’ll naturally go for darker shades, a blue which is almost black, or maybe grey which defines your wounds are fresh. 

Too much pain have different language, depression have different expression, a bipolar rambler will choose black, pitch black. A schizophrenic will choose strokes of dark colours in black, which eventually makes it chaotic. 

“But all the colours will agree in dark”, she said. Because she knew dark the best.