Inherent Sentiment 


If I’m to ask you a question that what might be the most natural feeling for you what would come to your mind? 

Happiness. Oh being happy is the most natural thing. I felt that all my life, but let me tell you, it isn’t that natural. When everything is just picture perfect, good friends, loving spouse, good job, and still you feel something stinging inside. It’s definitely not what happiness feels like.

Love. Yes, I felt that too! But do you feel loved when you’re falling apart? No I guess, you’re falling apart because love is the only thing you’re not feeling. 

Peace maybe? Being peaceful is tough nut to crack. After working for whole day long, maybe you’re peaceful, but then you feel that lump in your throat, when you see you’re not appreciated for what you’re doing! Is that peace? No. 

All this is just one thing. It’s pain.

P.A.I.N.

Yes Pain comes off most naturally I guess. It’s most adaptable feeling isn’t it? 

A friend just got braces (for teeth obviously), I asked how’s the Pain. She said I got used to with it, for a while I thought she got used to with her braces but no, she got used to with the Pain those braces give. 

Do you remember that time when you were sitting on the floor weeping? That Pain. It’s still there, but now you’re used to with that Pain. So it’s easy to deal with! 

That moment when you lose your loved one forever! That feeling, like you cannot imagine your life without them. But then gradually you adapt that Pain! So get used to with those silent tears during darker nights. You get used to with that Pain. 

It’s strange how we believe all our lives that peace, happiness, love comes naturally, and we are adaptable to it! But no, we are adaptable to Pain the most. Maybe survival instinct it is, like a friend said! But it’s in our nature, to bear Pain and get used to with it! 

Still we feel ashamed to show we’re in Pain. Maybe that’s why we say it’s not natural, because we are ashamed of it maybe! 

Well let me tell you, it’s most natural thing you can feel, and it’s really okay to be in Pain. Don’t hide it, don’t go into that shell, just bleed. 

Bleed publicly. 

Because you are not alone in it. Everybody is more or less broken and in pain. So just hang in there, it’ll be alright. No it won’t go away, it’s not a fairytale! But you will get used to with that PAIN…

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Choice 


Sitting in an unknown place, I heard a gal asking someone what must be the most powerful three words?! I started thinking about it too and I heard the guy say it’s ‘I love you’! And I wondered if it was true… they were still debating but my mind started weaving a different scenario all together.

I was wondering if ‘I Love You’ are the most powerful three words… my mind wasn’t agreeing, then I thought it might be ‘I trust you’.

I Trust You more than anybody else! People say this and still hurt the ones they trust the most. So those are definitely not the most powerful three words.

I Hate you. Can that be powerful? Yes hatred being the most powerful emotion those words can be powerful. But even after hating someone gravely, you forgive them.

I Forgive You. Oh forgiveness can be really powerful. But even after forgiving someone for the things they have done to you, you cannot forget it. Those things keep haunting you. You let those things define what you are!

I Need You. Need is everything, a person in need always stretch their limits and achieve unimaginable things. But even after needing that person the most, do you go to them? No. So these words might be powerful but not most powerful.

I Believe You. Believing works wonders. True. But even after believing in you why people don’t have faith in you? Still they choose to doubt you.

So even after saying a few powerful words like love, trust, faith, forgiveness, belief… people might not choose to do what they have agreed upon in past. Even after saying I love you, people leave you. After saying I trust you, they doesn’t choose to trust you in that critical moment. Even after forgiving they might not choose to forget it.


So CHOOSING matters.

So love is not enough, neither trust is! They’ll have to Choose to love you or trust you or forgive you.

They will have to Choose to trust you in that critical moment.

On the worst possible day when you are stuck with flowing nose, fever and sneezing profusely, and your loved one have to be somewhere else, they’ll have to Choose you over everything and everybody else.

They’ll have to choose to love you in your most vulnerable moment.

They’ll have to Choose to be by your side when you’re not worthy of love at all, when you’re screaming and pushing them out, they’ll have you to Choose to be there for you.

Despite your flaws, shortcomings, your sharp edges that hurts the most, the person will have to Choose you.

Not just today but even in future, the person will have to Choose to have faith in you, to trust you, to forgive you and most of all, that person has to choose to love you for the whole life!

Choice.

Choice is everything. Love, faith, belief, forgiveness… nothing matters.

Choosing to do all these things, it matters.

So Choice is a strongest word!

And when someone Choose you over all this, than it’s most powerful bonding!